Shai Afsai

The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man

 
 

 “The bride is beautiful” stories analyzed

Atlanta Jewish Connector, February 4, 2025

The ubiquity of “The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man” stories presents a troubling example of how scholars, journalists, and filmmakers regularly dispense with accuracy and evidentiary standards when dealing with Jewish, Zionist, and Israeli history.

(This article is a follow-up to 2020’s “The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man.” The tenacity of an anti-Zionist fable.)

 

“The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man.” The tenacity of an anti-Zionist fable

Fathom Journal, Autumn/December 2020

Some authors are unwilling to dispense with unsubstantiated stories, opting instead to put scholarly standards aside in their attempts to advance anti-Zionist arguments. One case in point is the “married to another man” fable.

(This article is a follow-up to 2012’s “The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man”: Historical Fabrication and an Anti-Zionist Myth.)

The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man - Cover of Ghada Karmi’s Married to Another Man.jpg

Cover of Ghada Karmi’s Married to Another Man: Israel’s Dilemma in Palestine

The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man - Cover of Ingmar Karlsson’s Bruden är vacker men har redan en man.jpg

Cover of Ingmar Karlsson’s Bruden är vacker men har redan en man: Sionisme – en ideologi vid vägs ände? (The bride is beautiful but there is already a husband: Zionism – an ideology at the end of the road?)


“The bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man”: Historical Fabrication and an Anti-Zionist Myth

Shofar: An Interdisciplinary Journal of Jewish Studies 30:3 (Spring 2012), pp. 35–61

According to a frequently repeated story, during the early years of the Zionist movement a number of European Jews were sent to Palestine to investigate its suitability as a location for a Jewish state. They reported back, the story concludes, that “the bride is beautiful, but she is married to another man“ — Palestine is an excellent land, but it belongs to others.

While its details vary with the telling, the story’s central point is often the same: already in the early years of the Zionist movement, Jews recognized that it would be unjust and immoral for them to try to claim Palestine; despite this awareness, the Zionists proceeded with their plans for Jewish statehood there; from the outset, therefore, the establishment of the state of Israel was an act of severe and willful injustice.